What Valentine’s Day means today
Valentine’s Day is a moment to express affection—romantically, platonically, or through simple appreciation. The modern holiday is less about perfection and more about intention: a message, a plan, or a small gesture that feels personal.
- Romantic love: partners, spouses, dating couples
- Friendship: Galentine’s celebrations and appreciation gifts
- Self-love: personal rituals and solo plans that feel restorative
Where the holiday comes from
Historically, Valentine’s Day is associated with Saint Valentine and later European courtship traditions. Over time, written notes and cards became a central tradition, eventually expanding into gifts, flowers, and planned experiences.
How to celebrate in a way that feels real
- Choose one meaningful anchor (a date, gift, or message).
- Add one personal detail (a shared memory, favorite place, or inside joke).
- Leave room for conversation and time together.